I enjoy reading blogs of my ex girlfriends/flings so that I can catch up with them without actually meeting in person. Out of a total 4 who had owned blogs, 2 of which has discontinued theirs. Which is pretty sad cos I will not be able to read about where and what they are doing, who their new boyfriends are and most importantly, if they still think of me.
I was talking to a colleague earlier about this new girl in our company and how its amusing that both of us has added her as friends despite not working in the same dept. I complimented on her looks and the guy colleague was like..
"what about your (current girlfriend) ? "
"what about ? "
"you don't like her anymore?"
"of course I do, she's girlfriend but the other is an eye candy"
"but but but ....blah blah blah"
I'm not sure who's right or wrong here. But I dare say its OK to make new friends with pretty girls or boys (even if you are attached). Everyone secretly loves to flirt around once in a while. It keeps me in touch with my youth and, if the girl reciprocates, affirms that I still possess my charm.